OK, so to get you started
with the right alpha sub-communications, one of the first things I want
you to start to notice about your self is how you use your eyes. Because
when it comes to doing any of the mind control ticks you will learn
your eyes are really important and they’re one of the main parts of this
whole thing that will let people know that you’re the alpha.
1. Eye Contact
A person who is in control
and a person who’s the alpha is not afraid to look directly into
someone’s eyes and command attention, so the first of the mind control
tricks I want to share with you is when you’re the one talking the more
eye contact you make with a person the more dominant they’ll perceive
you to be…
I mean think about it like
this, if you’re having a conversation with anyone even if it’s the
person behind the checkout at the store then there’s always an alpha and
a beta and chances are now that you know this stuff you’ll begin to
notice the dynamics of almost all social situations you’re in and you’ll
begin to recognise if you’re naturally the alpha or not.
And what do you want to be, the beta or the alpha?
Of course you want to be the
alpha, So the next time you’re talking to someone I want you to really
begin to notice how much eye contact you naturally give, because if
you’re constantly looking down or constantly looking away then you’re
sub communicating that you’re submissive and that you have a low social
status.
2. Voice Projection
And as well as that, another
one of my favourite mind control tricks and what I believe to be the
most important thing in all of this is your voice, the biggest predictor
of how good someone is going to be when they’re just starting out using
mind control tricks is their voice, and it all comes down to the
clarity and the volume in which they speak.
So as an example, the next
time you see two people having a conversation… you can see who’s the
more alpha just by taking the time to notice how they’re projecting
their voice, nine times out of ten the most alpha person will be the one
with the loudest and the clearest voice.
Go look in any social
situation and you’ll see that the person with the best voice is always
the one with the higher value and once you learn how to use your voice
in the right way to sub-communicate high value you’ll start to notice
that when you talk people will be sucked into your reality because they
find you interesting and this makes people feel comfortable around you.
3. Verbal Leading
So as you work on these sub
communications, another one of the mind control tricks I have learnt is
you also want to adopt the mindset of an alpha and the first thing that I
can say anyone who is an alpha has in common is we assume people will
follow our lead, so if I’m talking I’m leading the conversation, I’m the
one who’s coming up with the interesting topics of conversation, or I’m
the one with the funny story.
You need to lead every
interaction, and I know at first this may seem foreign to you at the
start, but you just need to push past this feeling until leading becomes
a part of you because leading demonstrates confidence and leading
demonstrates dominance which are both traits of an alpha.
So as an alpha one of the
mind control tricks you can use is you want to lead every interaction
that you’re in, and you need to lead physically as well as verbally.
So an example of physical
leading would be… “hey… let’s go for lunch at that Italian place.”
because you’re physically leading by saying “hey… come on let’s go here,
let’s go to this place”.
An example of verbal leading
is just leading the conversation, so when you’re talking to people one
on one or in group situations you are the one who is bringing up the
interesting conversation topics, you are the one who is talking about
the movie you just saw, you are the one who is telling the jokes or the
funny stories and if you watch closely, this is exactly what the
controller of a group always does.
